The "Ideal" man ...

Is there something like a "Ideal" man?
It all depends of the fact that every body have a different idea of perfection.
A man to spend your life with is different from the man where you just want to have a affaire with... So both man can be ideal but not for both situations ... Mostly when you just want to sleep with a man without further need to be with him you will find yourself looking at extremely sexy man who are musculate, tall, sexy, strong and most of all attractive for the eye ... When you want to find a man to spend your life with you will rather look for someone who is Good looking, kind, sweet, helpfull but not extremely attractive ... This kind of choice you make without really thinking about it ...You don't want to have competion of other woman too much when you are seriously involved with somebody, It's different when you have a affaire... In a affaire it is exiting to play the game and challenge each other with competition... Ofcourse some people are happy to have this kind of competition all the time and they can be emotionaly involved with a extremely handsome person and play the game all the time... But there is a chance that this person have only the looks and not the personality that you are looking for in a man to spend your life with ...My personal opinion is that a man has to be handsome but not extremely obvious, he must be sweet and listen to what I have to say, he must be helpfull and thoughtfull, he must accept me for who I am and not complain about what I do and the most important of all he must have a very happy personality and not be crankie all the time. My man must give me my freedom and not annoy me with wanting to sit at home all the time and wanting me to do the same... Not going to happen... The conditions for a man where I want to have a affaire with are completely different ... He just have to be gorgeous in every way... I must melt when I see him, and want him so badly when I see him that it must be difficult to keep my hands off of him . Seksual attraction is often the oposite of love... It's lust ... I would choose a combination of this two types of man to have my perfect match, but it doesn't mean I would have found the " Ideal man" The Ideal man are actually 2 different persons who you must have in different stages in your life to be completely happy...