Do you REALLY want to know?

If your partner is cheating on you, do you think you really want to know it?
When your relationship is very good and you are happy together, do you really want to know that your partner made a mistake?

I don't talk about the all time cheaters who cheats weekly.

This is about the person who cheated just once or twice and feel sorry about his action.

If this person is feeling sorry and is aware of what he did then I probably don't want to know that he cheated on me.
Most people who know that their partner cheated on them in the past they will always be suspicious and jalouse about everything he does, they will never trust him again and the relationship will change because of this. If a mistake like this happens once or twice and this person is not planning to make the same mistake ever again, I think they must not tell it to their partner. It's just not worth the pain of the person you will be telling it to. I don't say that cheating is a good thing or it don't need to be punished. But I think the person who did it and is aware of his action, will be punishing himself enough with guilty feelings about his action.I think that is more then enough.