Something you need to know about girls

All boys think girls dress up to attract them.
This is so NOT true, girls dress up in the first place to look good for themselves.
The second reason that girls spend time on their looks is because they want to impress other girls. Girls know boys will like us anyway and we don't care so much about looking perfect in front of the guys. But we want to get some attention from other girls because when a girl tell a girl she looks pretty it can mean 2 things: 1 She is a jalouse bitch and want you to think you look good when you are actually wearing a very bad dress for you're body type . 2 When you know you look you're best and a girl say you look pretty she will often be serious about this.
Girls enjoy compliments from other girls more then they enjoy then from the boys.

Girls rather choose a guy with a good personality who is less handsome then a guy who looks like a greek god with a sixpack and wavy hair.
At first girls are pretty shallow and look only at extrememly handsome man in their taste. When a girl need to find a guy to be serious with she will look at his looks but she will be more gentle about some little imperfections like a big nose or his little overweight belly. She will love him for who he is like a person and not only for how he looks. This don't mean that girls will be with a guy who is ugly and discusting just because he is a nice person. It just mean that she will forget about some bad things and exchange them for some inner quality's

If a girl likes a guy she will laugh about all of his jokes, even the not funny ones. So stupid, but so true..

If a girl likes a guy, there are 2 ways to find out.
She will rather ignore him or be around him a lot like a kind of stalker.
So if a guy really want to know what a girl think about him he can better ask her instead of trying figure it out. It is not possible for a boy to understand the silent hints of a woman.

Boys can only think about 1 thing at a time, like when they are hungry they only think about food and that they need to eat.
When a girl is hungry she first think about food, then she open the refrigirator and see a orange and think ohhhh this cute boy from school like oranges, does he like me?.. And so on and on. In the end she will even forget that she was hungry at all.

When a girl tell a boy she want to be JUST friends, it's true.
Then he must or go do his best in a short period of time to get the "friends" stamp off or he must just deal with it. A girl who want something more then just frendship will never say to a guy that she want him just like a friend, to play some kind of hard to get game, she will just not say that. A girl will either say something like, I don't know you good enough and we must get to know each other better or she will say that she have no interest for him . This 2 things will get a boy even more interested in her because he will want to get her to get to know him better or to get her attention to get her interest.

The girlfriends of a girl..
They know EVERYTHING!!!
Girls tell everything into details to their friends. How the guy looks without clothes, how you have sex, how often you have sex, how long you have sex.
Maybe too much information but gurls like to talk about it with their friends.

Every girl can make a ideal man of every guy who she is dating without him even knowing that.
Every girl silently change her boyfriend into a guy she really want.
It can start with changing his clothes by buying some new things for him or get him to the mall with her and point some things and say that they will look great on him. She can change his personality from being really tough to be more sensitive. Girls know how to do this and they do it maybe by accident, but it mostly deliver some good results.


Boy MUST pay for the first date.
A girl will feel pretty bad if a guy ask her to pay for herself on a first date.
Many girls will just walk away from a date if a guy is not prepared to pay for it.
Boys don't have to pay every single date that you will be having but the first one is the most important one and it will show a lot of the personality of that guy.

Don't pay attention to Girls celeberty crushes.
Girls have a lot of guys from the TV they like. A LOT.
There can be many reasons to this, the girl likes his looks, his talent, his character what he play in the movie, and on and on.
This is absolutely a peacefull crush with no other meanings around it, girls don't have seksual dreams about those guys, girls don't think about them like real persons. Girls just like to see them on the TV.

When a girl say it's nothing, you did something wrong.
A girl will never say it's nothing when there is actually nothing wrong.
Girls only say it's nothing because they want you to know you did something wrong and they want you to feel guilty about it.
Girls know that boys know that nothing means something and that a guy will always continue asking what's wrong when he hear it's nothing from you.


if a girl don't wear make-up around a guy she really likes it means that she feels comfortable with him.
When a girl feels insecure infront of a boy she will never show herself at her worst (in this case without make-up or messy hair.) Girls only show themselves like this to people who they really trust and who they really like a lot.


Woman like man who have a certain goal in their life, it can even be something stupid like wanting to collect all the svarovski crystals and start a museum or wanting to becom a astronaut. Girls like when a man think about his future and have some dreams about his what he wan to become.


If a guy don't know what to give to a girl on special occasions just give a girl flowers or juwelery.

Don't be late for a date.
I think this is obvious enough without further explain.

Forgive but never forget. That one time.
Girls forgive very quickly but they never forget!
If a guy did something bad to a girl in the past she will never forget it, she will forgive this guy but deep inside the girl there will be some kind of bad feeling against this person.
The best way to solve this problem is just throw bad things in to the garbage and always be nice to girls, girls have different hormones and they are more emotional so don't get a girl upset.


If a guy got caught lying he must just convince.
When a girl caught a boy lying to her and she figured out the truth the boy must just convince it and tell her that he is sorry . The girl will be mad , but not as much as when you will lie again and she will figure it out adventualy.



The guy must watch the girls favourite movies together with her, even if they are lame or stupid.

The other woman...

When a guy cheat on his woman the woman often blame the woman where he had cheated with more then she blame her man.

In my opinion if the woman is not someone you hang out with, you got nothing to blame on her.

Man are very easy to seduce and it is not the fault of the other woman that this man couldn't resist her beauty.

Most of the times when the woman know with who her man cheated on her with she will not let him go because she will be afraid that he will run back to the other woman and be with her.
She will call the other woman a bitch and a slut in front of her friends and talk about how "ugly" this woman is.
Most of the times the woman the man cheat on her with is better looking, or different looking or she have just that one thing that attract this man,
so it is all about jalousy.
She will also think about all the things that could attract her man looking at this other woman. With time she will hate this woman so much and want her as far away possibly, without even ever have talked with her or even know her.

But seriously... Why blame the other woman? It possible that she don't even know about the chance that the guy she is with even have a girlfriend or a wife.
Why hate someone who have nothing to do with you?
Your man is yours, and he is the one who is making this mistake. Blame him.

Man are weak when they see beautiful woman so mostly they cheat based on fysical attraction and often they are not in love with this other woman.
If you keep your man happy he don't need to go around and find
some new "meat"
I am not saying that this is the womans fault that the man cheat on them, but mostly the man who are cheating are not happy with their sex-life and if you want him to have full attention for you.. You know what you must do...

Live your dream

So many people have so many dreams and hopes that they forget to live their life to the fullest.
They don't understand that life is not about the ammount of money that they have or about the size of their house.
Life is just and only about being happy.
Being happy in what you do is very important, you must live your dream and try to live it just the way you want. If being a farmer make you happy, buy some chicken's and begin with it. If it is really your dream, you will achieve it.'
Don't let other people make goals for you about what you must accomplish.
The one and only person who can make this goals are you! Be happy with what you have and enjoy your life. You only live once so why waste your time with things that doesn't make you happy? Just live your dream the way you want it.
This life is yours don't let anybody tell you different!

You don't know what you had, untill it's gone...

I can come up with a lot of situations about this subject.
I will start with this simple one...

Every body had a moment in their life when you were eating candy and after you got full of it you throw the rest away in the garbage. You just had enough of it. But you don't realize that you only had enough for that moment, some hours later the apetite for the candy will come back and you will be sorry that you threw it away.
Most of the times before you throw the candy away you think by yourself, what if I will want to have the rest later? But on the other hand you think, I had so much of it I don't want it anymore. But in the end you realize that you lost something what you actually would be happy to still have.

The same situations happens with people.
How many times did you hear the story of 2 people when 1 wanted the other but the other had no interest?
I bet a lot of times. The main thing that mostly happens after this is that the first person get enough of waiting and will move on. The second person will see that person being happy with someone else and think about what he could have.. But it is already lost.

This is also a populair situation...
When someone want to get out of a happy family because he think it is boring.
I saw the same situation in the Movie Shrek the other day and I was thinking about it.
Shrek had everything he could ever dream of, a nice wife, 3 children, good friends, nice house. He was happy, but he had enough of it and wanted a change.
He wanted to have one day to be himself again, and he got it.
He saw his wife being happy with other things, his friends didn't even recognize him. He was alone and not happy, and he had a chance to loose it all because of his stupid choice.

Don't worry there was a happy end to this movie.

But in the real life this situation can get pretty ugly. You can really loose the life you have if you think it is not exiting anymore and it get really average and boring. Think twice of what you have and if you are ready to loose it or change it for something else .

I Love You

Some people say I love you after 1 week, some after 2 years... Some never say it...

Most people think that love come with time, how much longer you know somebody how much more you love that person. I don't think so. Love have nothing to do with time, it is all about your feeling for this certain person.
Some people laugh about people who say that they love their boyfriend after 2 weeks, they say it is not possible.
Why would something like this not be possible, there is a chance of meeting some one and having deeply feelings for this person very very fast. It can even happen over night. Poeple don't have control about their feelings, the feelings just appear. Many people hyde those feelings because they are afraid of the reactions of other people or the reaction of that person who they "love".
Why is this necessary? Why people can't be honest about their feelings without getting laugh at? Are the people who never say I love you really are cold blooded creatures who doesn't know what love is? People are just different, some are open and some are closed about their feelings for others. This kind of people mostly are nice and lovable people who are afraid to get hurt.

Do you REALLY want to know?

If your partner is cheating on you, do you think you really want to know it?
When your relationship is very good and you are happy together, do you really want to know that your partner made a mistake?

I don't talk about the all time cheaters who cheats weekly.

This is about the person who cheated just once or twice and feel sorry about his action.

If this person is feeling sorry and is aware of what he did then I probably don't want to know that he cheated on me.
Most people who know that their partner cheated on them in the past they will always be suspicious and jalouse about everything he does, they will never trust him again and the relationship will change because of this. If a mistake like this happens once or twice and this person is not planning to make the same mistake ever again, I think they must not tell it to their partner. It's just not worth the pain of the person you will be telling it to. I don't say that cheating is a good thing or it don't need to be punished. But I think the person who did it and is aware of his action, will be punishing himself enough with guilty feelings about his action.I think that is more then enough.

It's all 'bout the money...

Does money make people happy?

I think money alone don't make you happy. But it make your life a lot easier and when your life is easy you will not be worried about surviving in this expencive world. But also money have it downsides.
Some people say that money is not important. IT IS... You must have money to buy and do random things. A little bit extra sometimes can make you happy.

Peobably most people think that they would be more happy if they had more money, some even say they wish for a money tree. The idea of having money that never dissapear and always grows back is pretty sick in my opinion. People must know the value of money and have ambitions to earn their own "selfmade" money by working for it.

But my opinion is that money can make you happy, but only when it's limited.When you have all the money in the world the things you will buy will mean nothing to you because you would be able to get anything you want.Believe it or not, that can be pretty boring.