How to get rid of a guy ...

Some times in your life there will be a guy you want to get rid of...
It can be your boyfriend, husband, just a friend or a guy you have a affaire with
If you want to stop the relationship in a decent way just act like a grown up person and don't use the typical trics that all the people know already and they will be aware of the fact that you use one or several of the typical "break up trics"... So especially don't use one of the following ones...

Don't annoy him by calling him all the time with this kinds of openings:
“Hey, just calling to see what you were doing”
“I miss you, baby”
“It’s me again, are you there?”
“Why aren’t you answering the phone?”
“Why aren’t you calling me back?”
“Hey baby, just seeing what you were doing”
He will be annoyed by this... But it will NOT get him so far to dump you .. You will Just have a Irritated vibe in your relationship...

Always questioning him about everything he does is also a pretty popular way to irritate a guy... Also this is not a reason for him to get away from you.. Some boys will even think you are soooo in love with him that you want to know everything he does... He WILL think that you are very jalouse... But not everybody dislike jalousy in a relationship.

Don't do this :

Asking him what he did when he don't pick up his phone when you called.

Asking him what he did exactly at 12 p.m. today.

Asking him is he is cheating on you when he don't answer your call .

etc...

Pretty irritating... Don't you think?
Also after this he will NOT dump you..

Most popular one is talking about all your ex-boyfriends...

You can seriously hurt some ones feelings by doing this, do you really want this person to be hurt?

Just speak from your heart and don't imitate something that is written on the internet or in books.. You have your own thoughts... You are not a robot..

If you want to get rid of someone you must do it yourself and not hope that he will be so annoyed by you that he will dump you... Even if you will annoy him so much that he will end the realtionship... What do you win with it? Just the fact that he will be the one who will be feeling guilty, when it's actually your choice...
The only normal and human thing to do is just be honest with him..
Tell him what is bothering you and what you want.

If you don't want to be with him anymore just say I don't want to be with you anymore, and name your reasons for this.
Try to avoid the reasons that could hurt him, don't say that he is a bad lover or that he is ugly or getting pretty fat... Just don't say the things that you will not be wanting to hear from someone in your face... Also avoid telling him the all time favourite quote: It is not you, it's me ... Nobody believe this stupid, stupid ,stupid line... I am shoqued that so many people still use this like a excuse... It is NOT about you when YOU want to dump somebody... if it was not about HIM you would not be dumping the guy... So in fact the problem is HE,THE GUY,THE MAN,YOUR BOYFRIEND how ever you want to call him... HE is the problem... It doesn't mean he is a bad person, or that you think he is bad... It just because HE is not right for you, he is not what YOU want,need,like.. So the stupid words like this must be banned from the list of quotes that people still use...

Just say what you want to say... Don't be afraid of his reaction... This is your life and the choice that you make is the best choice for YOU...